In the midst of April showers and May flowers has been a bundle of blessings, growth, travel, and quiet reflection. Finding the calm and meaning among the storms has been a part of the journey I have learned to appreciate. And if I am honest, I still have room to do better with that. Part of adulting for me has been a blend of reestablishing boundaries, reinforcing my values, and just being okay with the unknown.
In early April, I had my graduation ceremony for a leadership program I took part in for the past year. It was an incredibly special moment for me, and it was actually the first uninterrupted graduation ceremony I’ve ever had. (That’s another story for another day.) It was a glorious celebration of excellence, womanhood, sisterhood, and family.
I also had some quality time with my Goddaughter who made her First Holy Communion. Supporting my Goddaughter was so special and important to me. I also enjoyed being able to spend time in Los Angeles. I especially enjoyed the sun, soft serve, and shopping. During this trip, we also went to a few fun restaurants, including The Hideaway and Crustacean. Both had great cuisine and service, so I definitely recommend trying them.
Between professional development, family time, and travel, Spring did its part in reminding me to smell the flowers and honoring the present whenever possible. Spring is a great time ripe for transformation, which has been an ever present theme I’ve noticed this year. Welcoming transformation has come with some pretty unexpected lessons on adulthood and adulting in general. I’m glad I was able to take them all in stride, patience, and acceptance. In the meantime, I’ll remain somewhere in between a magnolia and a lotus with a smile.