Observing the rich life and legacy of Civil Rights hero and Nobel Peace Prize winner, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. is more than just a day to honor him. For me, it’s an every day call to action. And this year was extra special for me. I was invited by the Black Employee Collective at CHANEL U.S. corporate offices in New York City to pay tribute by discussing my life’s work that has been dedicated to service, including but not limited to my Peace Corps service, executive and legislative branch service, and countless hours volunteering at schools, food kitchens, hospitals, and with nonprofit organizations.
Not only was this an esteemed honor, but also a full circle moment for me. My personal style has always been something I have held dear to me as a special method of expression and part of the impetus for starting this blog. During my time as a public servant, I’ve had colleagues who have paid complement to my style and ask for advice. And on the other side of the spectrum, I’ve also had colleagues say the most unkind things to me directly regarding my expression of style in the workplace, which was challenging to deal with at the time. Yet and still, I remained true to myself and wore what made me feel happy, confident, and effective.
My first job in life was in high school where I worked in the juniors section of a major department store. Growing up wearing uniforms my whole life in school before college with quarterly “free dress” days, I took pride in any ensemble I put together. At times, I was a repeat outfit offender and this is something I still do to this day without shame. Only now I may switch up my accessories and hairstyles for a little razzle dazzle.
But back to MLK Day at CHANEL! I was so nervous, but more like an excited nervous than a butterflies nervous. I have spoken in front of groups more times than I can count and performed in a plethora of sold out sports arenas and stadiums with over 50,000 people. Turning inward to self-assurance, I thought to myself, “You got this!” But as much as I was nervous about how I would be received, I was equally nervous about what I would wear in front of some of the best dressed people who would undoubtedly all be donned head to toe in the world’s most iconic luxury brand.
Dresses are my go-to, so I veered towards a long dress that leaned professional, yet elegant and understated. Thankfully, I was able to pay tribute to my gracious hosts with some CHANEL accessories to tie the entire look together. At the close of the event, I felt empowered, honored, and celebrated. It was also a reminder of how grateful I am to be a living recipient of Dr. King’s dream. At the same time, I’ve always carried a deep sense of responsibility to both act and pass on his indelible legacy.
Martin Luther King, Jr.’s words, actions, and imprint have captivated and inspired me beyond measure. One of my favorite of his innumerable impactful quotes is, “Everybody can be great…because anybody can serve. You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love.”
Both MLK and Coco Chanel are known for being optimistic dreamers, and I can say the same about myself. May you continue to dream and serve in the best way that works for you while never forgetting the needs of self with a sprinkle of style along the way!
